evolution of a man...

it's vacation time!
Posted on July 4, 2008 11:48 AM

in honor of this 4th of july weekend, i will be traveling for the very first time to new orleans for the:

i'm so friggin' excited! my mom randomly emailed me and said she had tickets, and so i decided to make a go of it, and head on down to meet her. it's destined to be an incredibly fun weekend. i absolutely love music, and am drooling over all of the artists i'm going to see: Jill Scott, J. Holiday, Kanye West, Rhianna, and Mary J. Blige to name a few...

on top of all of that, i'll finally get to see new orleans! i've always wanted to go, ans so I'll be staying an extra day or so to take in all the sites. i can't wait to stroll through the french quarter and try the beignets at cafe du monde!

happy 4th of july, everyone! :-)


staying in for pride
Posted on June 28, 2008 10:07 AM

this weekend is the gay pride celebration here in new york. usually, i'm like the first of my friends in line to organize our little group's participation in the festivities. this year, i'm just not into it. it's almost as if i'd just rather not be gay this year... i'm just kind of over it.

every year you see the same thing- the drag queens, the hot shirtless men, the flamboyant youngsters- and this year i just feel extremely detached. i'm proud to be gay, and understand the importance of the parade (especially this year now that gay marriage is legal in california), but i'd just rather stay at home and work than be in the city watching the parade and joining in on the party.

i have a few projects that are really starting to take form, and the excitement is almost 10 times as intense as attending the parade would be. i just want to keep working to make some of my dreams come true. that's pride, right?

so i'm staying in this year. to those of you heading out to party this weekend, have a great time, and happy pride!! :-)


my hands smell...
Posted on June 25, 2008 10:24 AM

a couple of days ago, i bought one of those PUR water filters that go on your kitchen faucet. when i got home to set it up, i found that my current faucet, being old as fuck, is not compatible with my new filtering device.

yesterday, being in something of an overton wakefield jones mood, i skipped down to the home depot and bout a really nice chrome faucet for my kitchen sink. the box read, "easy to install," which of course made me extremely happy given the fact that i had no idea what i was doing. unfortunately, though, my existing faucet really could give a rats ass about how much work it would take for me to remove it.

as such, i spent the better part of the evening, trying to remove probably 20 years of grease and grime from the bolts in order for me to take the faucet off. the bolts were very hard to reach and were stuck on so tight that i had to bend and move some parts of the pipe in order to reach it. bending the pipes, however proved to be quite detrimental. one of the pipes ended up bursting, leaving me soaked in nasty, smelly pipe water. ewww! needless to say, the faucet never got changed.

and what's worse is that today, after washing and lathering up like a mug, i still smell like dirty old pipe water. not cute. not cute at all!

note to self: you are NOT a handyman, will!


X'pos'D: parts 3 & 4
Posted on June 20, 2008 3:23 PM

hey everyone! check out the last 2 parts of nathan seven scott's explosive series, "x'pos'd" below:

part 3


part 4

we hope you enjoyed this interview series. if you haven't done so already, pick up a copy of terrance dean's "hiding in hip-hop!"

you've been x'pos'd!


good job jesus!- the birthday edition...
Posted on June 18, 2008 8:05 PM

as we all know, i'm an incredibly huge movie fan! have been as long as i can remember. in college, i spent my spare evenings in the basement- curled up in one of my handmade blankets (yes i crochet!), watching movies and eating popcorn; and one evening, i came across the movie, "living out loud," starring holly hunter and queen latifah, but with a "special" appearance by:

eddie cibrian!

in this movie, eddie played a really hot masseuse who visits holly hunter's character after she'd had a drunken (and somewhat embarassing) night out. this entire scene, was all about eddie! this boy's body is so amazing- particular his mouthwatering bubble of an ass!

i know those of you who saw this movie seriously considered (if only for a moment) callin' a "masseuse" from the paper after feeling everything that eddie was giving in that scene. and for those of you who haven't seen this bit of orgazmic goodness, here:

if you're like me, you've probably rewound the scene (or parts of it) like 20 times before going on to do anything else [read: read the rest of this blog post].

today happens to be eddie's 35th birthday! what better day to take the opportunity to get on our knees (in thankful prayer, bitches!), and thank the good lawd for the yummy deliciousness that is mr. eddie cibrian!

good job, jesus! and happy birthday, eddie! :-)

archive.
July 4, 2008 11:48 AM: it's vacation time!
June 28, 2008 10:07 AM: staying in for pride
June 25, 2008 10:24 AM: my hands smell...
June 20, 2008 3:23 PM: X'pos'D: parts 3 & 4
June 18, 2008 8:05 PM: good job jesus!- the birthday edition...
June 18, 2008 1:23 PM: i'd like to give it up to...
June 17, 2008 7:27 PM: finally bored!
June 16, 2008 7:34 PM: i just have one thing to say...
June 15, 2008 4:48 PM: on "a new earth" revelations...
June 13, 2008 4:59 PM: you ready for more?
June 10, 2008 3:12 PM: good job, jesus!
June 10, 2008 11:52 AM: on unexpected realizations...
June 9, 2008 1:31 PM: r.i.p. grandma
June 6, 2008 9:59 AM: you've been X'POS'D!
June 4, 2008 4:02 PM: have you ever felt this strongly about your place of work?
June 3, 2008 9:03 AM: it's almost time to be X'POS'D!
June 2, 2008 4:37 PM: ...negro woman of the south...
June 2, 2008 11:31 AM: wait... i'm confused!
June 1, 2008 6:22 PM: good job, jesus! - oldie but goodie
May 29, 2008 7:48 PM: a step in the right direction...
May 29, 2008 12:49 PM: on the bad boy making the band tour...
May 28, 2008 9:52 AM: another teaser...
May 26, 2008 6:55 PM: can i just smile for a minute...
May 25, 2008 6:17 PM: on my love for hamburgers...
May 23, 2008 8:25 PM: on what i've been up to- the teaser...
May 15, 2008 4:40 PM: on birthday revelations...
May 15, 2008 1:48 PM: happy, happy; joy, joy!
May 14, 2008 12:27 PM: it's my fucking birthday!
May 7, 2008 9:22 PM: changes everywhere!
May 7, 2008 2:10 PM: updates...
May 4, 2008 11:09 PM: sigh
April 26, 2008 4:07 PM: ahhh BLURG!!
April 21, 2008 6:14 PM: because i'm worth it!
April 20, 2008 1:59 PM: the unicorns strike again!
April 19, 2008 5:53 PM: mr hubcap
April 18, 2008 9:51 PM: on divine intervention
April 17, 2008 7:52 PM: good job, jesus!
April 16, 2008 4:14 PM: on the only time i've ever wanted to be a cop...
April 15, 2008 9:38 PM: no ma'am!
April 13, 2008 7:01 PM: on a lesson learned in privacy...
April 12, 2008 5:29 AM: on an intense feeling...
April 10, 2008 3:52 PM: it's definitely spring!
April 7, 2008 10:46 PM: things i learned this week
April 5, 2008 8:25 PM: told ya!
April 5, 2008 4:30 PM: this morning, i was attacked...
April 4, 2008 12:49 PM: perched!
April 4, 2008 3:37 AM: on a valuable lesson learned...
March 31, 2008 7:29 PM: i plan to be surprised!
March 20, 2008 1:12 PM: it's about damn time!
March 19, 2008 6:48 PM: what would u do?
March 18, 2008 11:12 AM: good job, jesus! - willie
March 17, 2008 9:02 PM: somebody kiss me!
March 16, 2008 2:26 PM: on the beginnings of facing a fear...
March 15, 2008 8:30 PM: he done did it to me again!
March 11, 2008 7:37 PM: laugh of the day...
March 10, 2008 3:46 PM: good job, jesus! - method man & redman
March 10, 2008 3:17 PM: wow! i have no words!
March 10, 2008 1:50 AM: i'm mad at the fact that..
March 8, 2008 10:46 AM: i'd like to give it up to...
March 7, 2008 10:03 AM: rotflmao @ dru hill right now!!
March 6, 2008 12:46 PM: i'm done!
March 5, 2008 9:49 PM: stepping outside the box...
March 3, 2008 8:07 PM: on the best 19 seconds of my day...
February 21, 2008 10:04 PM: good job, jesus!
February 19, 2008 8:34 PM: excuse me?
February 19, 2008 5:29 PM: on something for melissa...
February 19, 2008 2:22 PM: i want it... i want it now!
February 18, 2008 9:41 AM: on some new ish fo dat ass!(lol)...
February 11, 2008 10:11 AM: a bit of grammy excitement!
February 6, 2008 6:31 PM: i'd like to give it up to...
February 1, 2008 3:15 PM: a little friday funny...
January 30, 2008 8:23 PM: it's not a game...it's ninja warrior!
January 28, 2008 8:20 PM: good job, jesus! - the mission...
January 28, 2008 10:49 AM: time to face the music...
January 27, 2008 2:17 PM: i'd like to give it up to...
January 25, 2008 7:46 PM: on something to share...
January 24, 2008 12:25 PM: best side-eye in the world!
January 24, 2008 9:52 AM: on letting go...
January 16, 2008 7:18 PM: on a grilled cheese and an orgasm...
January 15, 2008 8:17 PM: relapse
January 13, 2008 6:15 PM: on some good, trashy television...
January 11, 2008 6:56 PM: good job, jesus! a farewell...
January 10, 2008 11:13 AM: feeling much better now...
January 9, 2008 10:24 AM: cotton mouth....
January 7, 2008 2:24 PM: i think i'm being tested
January 6, 2008 11:48 PM: i know i'm all late, but...
January 4, 2008 10:06 AM: new year, new feelings...
January 1, 2008 9:47 PM: HAPPY NEW YEAR!
December 29, 2007 5:11 PM: good job, jesus!
December 27, 2007 1:49 PM: 2008? time to grow up...
December 22, 2007 1:28 PM: on learnin' how to work the hoe stroll..
December 20, 2007 6:47 PM: good job, jesus!
December 17, 2007 10:22 AM: i have a question...
December 13, 2007 10:16 AM: i called it on day one!
December 12, 2007 8:11 PM: on a silver screen christmas...
December 12, 2007 11:52 AM: a picture says a thousand words...
December 12, 2007 9:56 AM: on why will smith and i need to hook up...
December 11, 2007 1:40 PM: girl, i'm with you!
December 10, 2007 8:16 PM: jesus take the wheel!
December 10, 2007 2:28 PM: good job, jesus!
December 7, 2007 7:05 PM: oohhh, that's nice...
December 6, 2007 11:49 AM: on finding my mojo...
December 4, 2007 10:49 AM: good job, jesus!
December 3, 2007 4:47 PM: on a sigh of relief for my kidneys...
December 2, 2007 11:38 AM: on her way...
November 27, 2007 11:41 AM: on the best (domestic) vacation ever!
November 26, 2007 11:35 PM: oh. em. gee.
November 21, 2007 8:46 PM: dose of the good stuff...
November 20, 2007 3:42 PM: this made my fucking day!
November 19, 2007 9:33 PM: a hot dog and a weave...
November 19, 2007 5:43 PM: drunk bitch!
November 18, 2007 5:16 PM: it's vacation time!
November 14, 2007 9:10 PM: trya, you were so damn wrong for that shit!
November 14, 2007 2:28 PM: let me smell your d*ck
November 13, 2007 8:00 PM: bitch, what's wrong with you?
November 12, 2007 1:30 PM: escargot
November 12, 2007 11:04 AM: on a little feng shui...
November 9, 2007 4:37 PM: good job, jesus: the vh1 edition
November 8, 2007 9:20 PM: i want y'all to meet someone
November 5, 2007 10:10 AM: the & show - "(homo)Sexual Assault"
November 4, 2007 8:40 PM: who ran it? the halloween edition...
November 1, 2007 2:50 PM: on the best halloween ever!
October 26, 2007 9:40 PM: omg!
October 24, 2007 11:16 AM: stuck
October 22, 2007 10:43 AM: the & show - dr. x
October 17, 2007 1:36 PM: ummm....wow!
October 15, 2007 10:20 AM: the & show
October 12, 2007 11:23 AM: tootsie pop anyone?
October 11, 2007 11:07 AM: let it go to voicemail!
October 9, 2007 10:47 AM: i love new york 2
September 27, 2007 9:06 PM: on the real thing..."
September 24, 2007 3:12 PM: best laugh ever!
September 24, 2007 12:50 PM: oh shit! did they just...?
September 24, 2007 9:32 AM: the & show - "introducing dr. x"
September 23, 2007 5:17 PM: what was i angry about?
September 21, 2007 11:57 AM: on the use of power and influence...
September 21, 2007 10:45 AM: good job, jesus!
September 21, 2007 10:24 AM: on celebrity rap superstar...
September 19, 2007 2:12 PM: ummm....
September 17, 2007 11:11 AM: the & show - "the top shelf book club"
September 14, 2007 9:12 AM: on life's reminders...
September 11, 2007 6:10 PM: on shit that just gives you the shakes...
September 11, 2007 10:21 AM: leave britney alone!
September 10, 2007 7:51 PM: on friendship & romance...
September 9, 2007 9:06 PM: what tha fuck?
September 6, 2007 11:49 AM: can't! stop! twitching!
September 5, 2007 1:17 PM: who rocked it... the bug edition
September 4, 2007 1:42 PM: can i get some of that cake?
September 4, 2007 10:03 AM: the & show - "religion"
September 2, 2007 11:01 PM: i have a question...
August 29, 2007 1:25 PM: evolution of a man...
August 26, 2007 12:21 PM: thank you, isadora!
August 20, 2007 10:53 AM: the & show - "greiving the loss of a loved one"
August 16, 2007 12:41 AM: memoirs of a bedroom...
August 15, 2007 8:20 PM: wha happened?
August 15, 2007 4:16 PM: this makes me sad...
August 12, 2007 7:37 PM: back to school...
August 10, 2007 7:37 PM: good job, jesus!
August 8, 2007 11:27 PM: ummm...
August 8, 2007 3:29 PM: on a reason to wear a t-shirt from now on...
August 6, 2007 10:22 AM: the beyonce experience
July 31, 2007 10:57 AM: on the cusp of greatness...
July 30, 2007 3:47 PM: the & show - "hiv"
July 24, 2007 10:08 AM: game on!
July 23, 2007 1:40 PM: the & show - blues vs. seven
July 23, 2007 1:37 PM: aaooouuuwwww!
July 22, 2007 4:18 PM: on a nyc first...
July 20, 2007 9:55 AM: work, bitch!
July 17, 2007 11:25 AM: having dirty thoughts...
July 16, 2007 10:54 AM: the & show - "george k. jordan"
July 13, 2007 10:37 AM: on the most action i've had in months...
July 12, 2007 10:14 AM: i think i just had a baby!
July 9, 2007 11:20 AM: walk it out!
July 9, 2007 9:36 AM: the & show - "men on the dl"
July 8, 2007 3:46 PM: on being grown and sexy...
July 7, 2007 6:00 PM: something's gotta give...
June 4, 2007 11:08 AM: ummm...
May 1, 2007 9:40 AM: on why i love anthony hopkins...
April 30, 2007 9:37 AM: the & show - "south africa- here we come!"
April 29, 2007 12:54 PM: what would you do?
April 23, 2007 10:43 AM: the & show - "black women"
April 11, 2007 9:50 AM: on the color purple...
April 9, 2007 12:24 PM: the & show - "interview with dj"
April 5, 2007 11:55 AM: something for me...
April 4, 2007 10:57 AM: the list...
April 4, 2007 10:07 AM: yay...
April 3, 2007 11:34 AM: speechless and kinda pissed!
April 2, 2007 10:18 PM: on a strong, but pleasant realization...
April 2, 2007 3:04 PM: oh my damn!
April 2, 2007 2:31 PM: i just have one thing to say!
April 2, 2007 1:35 PM: where did this soulful little white gurl come from?
April 2, 2007 12:03 PM: the & show - "faggot! bitch! homo! queer!...what?"
March 28, 2007 10:22 AM: a mess!
March 27, 2007 8:49 AM: the & show - "barebacking"
March 24, 2007 9:03 PM: fuck all y'all bitches...
March 23, 2007 11:52 AM:
damn, ray j...
March 23, 2007 10:28 AM: good job, jesus!
March 20, 2007 11:17 AM: on a morning routine gone bad...
March 19, 2007 2:15 PM: did marques houston come out this weekend?
March 19, 2007 10:05 AM: the & show - "the secret"
March 18, 2007 8:41 PM: on this crazy ass weather...
March 13, 2007 11:44 PM: y'all might get mad, but how y'all feel about this question?
March 13, 2007 10:06 PM: an amurican idol recap...
March 13, 2007 10:42 AM: some dudes just have all the luck...
March 12, 2007 3:49 PM: the & show - "noah's arc"
March 11, 2007 8:32 PM: wanna see some shit?
March 11, 2007 1:05 PM: a world music awards recap
March 9, 2007 3:44 PM: good job, jesus!
March 8, 2007 9:16 PM: why didn't y'all tell me...
March 8, 2007 4:57 PM: if i were 7...
March 5, 2007 9:43 AM: the & show
March 4, 2007 7:50 PM: BACK TO THE GYM!
March 3, 2007 8:30 PM: just call me rudy huxtable...
March 3, 2007 8:28 PM: damn!
March 2, 2007 2:24 PM: ummm... this ain't 1989!
March 2, 2007 9:55 AM: ummm...yeah...
March 2, 2007 12:03 AM: damn, that's some shit...
March 1, 2007 12:59 PM: just a beautiful liar...
March 1, 2007 10:37 AM: it hurts like new shoes...
February 28, 2007 11:38 PM: she finally convinced me...
February 28, 2007 10:23 PM: a top model recap...
February 28, 2007 12:59 PM: dreams come true...
February 27, 2007 10:51 PM: god's tryin' to tell u somethin'...
February 27, 2007 4:31 PM: i knew the queen and i had something in common...
February 26, 2007 9:36 AM: don't act like you didn't...
February 23, 2007 6:38 PM: can u feel me too, when i braid your hair...
February 21, 2007 9:54 PM: told ya those gurlz were gonna turn it out...
February 20, 2007 9:55 PM: y'all better bring it!
February 20, 2007 3:43 PM: oprah's response...
February 20, 2007 1:31 PM: what u say?
February 18, 2007 10:51 PM: it's official....
February 16, 2007 7:28 PM: good job, jesus
February 14, 2007 10:06 PM: dems a mess!
February 14, 2007 1:57 PM: mah gurl!!
February 14, 2007 1:55 PM: happy february 14th!
February 11, 2007 5:21 PM: game on!
February 11, 2007 11:45 AM: on why i need to start carrying a camera at all times...
February 11, 2007 11:22 AM: firsts of 2007...
February 9, 2007 8:12 PM: new blog segment...
February 9, 2007 5:39 PM: good job, jesus!
February 9, 2007 5:11 PM: what just happened?
February 6, 2007 9:34 PM: on why heroes is the best fucking show on tv
February 6, 2007 7:58 PM: how many actors are there?
February 6, 2007 11:43 AM: how's a man supposed to have sex in this weather?
February 5, 2007 11:48 PM: had to clutch my pearls for a minute...
February 4, 2007 8:17 PM: gay man's view of the superbowl: thought #5
February 4, 2007 6:56 PM: note to self
February 4, 2007 6:46 PM: gay man's view of the superbowl: thought #4
February 4, 2007 6:36 PM: gay man's view of the superbowl: thought #3
February 4, 2007 6:27 PM: gay man's view of the superbowl: thought #2
February 4, 2007 6:19 PM: gay man's view of the superbowl: thought #1
February 4, 2007 6:03 PM: oh... it's actually a GAME?
February 2, 2007 5:57 PM: on a good laugh...
January 31, 2007 5:12 PM: on suprising, yet astonishing performances...
January 29, 2007 2:38 PM: on another milestone...
January 27, 2007 2:49 PM: I LOVE YOU, but...
January 24, 2007 8:46 PM: on reasons to go to jail...
January 23, 2007 8:15 PM: y'all ain't ready...
January 22, 2007 8:48 PM: on parental guilt
January 20, 2007 7:24 PM: on growth and accomplishment...
January 17, 2007 10:38 AM: on random acknowledgements...
January 16, 2007 10:36 AM: holiday celebration
December 27, 2006 11:57 AM: on a nigga moment…
December 22, 2006 4:06 PM: on starting fresh...
December 13, 2006 11:58 AM: what is sleep... really?
December 10, 2006 2:57 PM: on why i'm never eating at applebees again...
December 1, 2006 2:01 AM: but wait... there's more!
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